A pendulum of opposites extending below a galaxy in space. The centre of the pendulum has Da Vinci's Vitruvian man in it.

A duality of opposite forces, present throughout creation and in ourselves, has been depicted in western esotericism and eastern spirituality in various ways. The potential to unify or transcend opposites is a recurrent theme too. Modern spiritual authors Maurice Nicoll and Eckhart Tolle address this idea in strikingly similar ways, at times with near-identical expressions and examples. While both discuss the wider workings of the “law of opposites,” they mainly focus on psychology—on how our emotions cycle between opposite states, from pleasant to negative and back again. Both direct us to go beyond these opposites within us, and find a state of consciousness that has “no opposite.” While their outlooks can differ, their level of correspondence on this theme is truly remarkable.


That a duality of opposite forces underlie existence is an old idea; Maurice Nicoll mentions various examples from ancient sources in his Psychological Commentaries on the Teaching of Gurdjieff and Ouspensky.[1] But in Nicoll’s works within the Fourth Way tradition, and in the bestselling books of independent spiritual author Eckhart Tolle, it’s the psychological effects of the law of opposites that’s paramount. They suggest we’re trapped in ongoing cycles between opposite inner states, and propose using self-observation and present-moment awareness to go beyond this.

Yet they outline the all-pervasive nature of this law as well, sometimes with corresponding expressions and examples. Dual opposing forces, or polarities, they suggest, act throughout the universe at both a cosmic and individual level. There are movements towards expansion, growth or development, and a reverse movement of contraction, resistance or decline with all things. Everything is subject to cycles between these two major tendencies, in which one or the other is dominant. This can be seen in cycles of creation and destruction in the universe, birth and death in nature, the ascent and decline of civilizations, expansion and contraction of our hearts, and periods of advancement and loss in our own lives.

The authors call this principle “the law of opposites” at least once, but frequently use other terms.[2] [3] Nicoll mostly uses “The Law of the Pendulum” to describe “the work of the opposites” and the motions between them,[4] while Tolle uses various expressions such as “law of polarities”, “realm of opposites” and “play of opposites.”[5] But whatever term is used, both authors express the general idea that everything swings or cycles between opposite conditions in time.

As mentioned, they mostly focus on how this applies to our inner world of emotions, thoughts and moods. Our inner state moves back and forth between pleasurable, or apparently “positive” states, and unpleasant, painful or negative states to varying degrees, they say.

But unlike certain self-help teachings advocating “positive thinking” to counter negative or unhappy inner states, Nicoll and Tolle stress the importance of going beyond these cycles of opposites entirely. A movement to one side of this duality only perpetuates the eventual, and inevitable, counter movement to the opposite side. When it comes to opposites, “you cannot have one without the other” both write; opposite states are “inseparable”—two sides of the same coin or penny, to cite just one corresponding aphorism they share.  Pleasant and unpleasant are therefore conjoined: you cannot permanently escape one by seeking the other.

Maurice Nicoll and Eckhart Tolle Quotes Discussing How Emotional Opposites Are Inseparable

Yet it is possible to free oneself from the mechanical succession of opposite states, they suggest, if we consciously observe and cease identifying with both sides of this cycle. That means both mental-emotional poles—so negative/painful states and their pleasurable counterparts too. Our real self is beyond these opposites, they say. By coming out of this inner cycle of opposites, we can instead come to experience a conscious state instilled with inner peace—and genuine love. Such a state has “no opposite” and comes from one’s real inner being, which is said to exist beyond ordinary mental-emotional opposites entirely.

Attaining to this state of consciousness, which is independent of anything external, is a major focus of their teachings, and they have much in common to say about it. But they don’t just describe the same general ideas: they use closely-matching phrases, expressions and examples too. As readers of my previous pieces will know, their correspondences are often descriptive not just conceptual—apparent in the terms and wording used. There are numerous cases of striking correspondences in their words. In this article, my comparative analysis will highlight their many similarities on the theme of opposites.

After comparing their commonalities, I will examine how they differ from the “positive thinking” approach when it comes to dealing with the opposites within, as well as from each other in a very significant way. For Nicoll also describes the importance of a “third force,” the reconciling aspect of the trinity—one of three fundamental forces whose workings Gurdjieff described under “the law of three”—in bringing opposites into harmony. There is no mention of such ideas in Tolle’s books.

Yet despite their sometimes different outlooks, their level of correspondence on this theme is significant and substantial. This article continues my research into similarities in their work—in which I’ve previously covered self-observation, self-identity and the “pain-body.”

Summary of similarities

We can summarise how Nicoll and Tolle describe the law of opposites functioning as follows:

  1. The law of opposites—also “law of the pendulum” (Nicoll) or “law of polarities” (Tolle)—describes a universal principle, governing everything in the manifest universe, including us.
  2. Shared examples of its influence include: the ascent and decline of civilisations, the expansion and contraction of our hearts, and the periods of advancement and loss in our own lives.
  3. This law also governs human psychology, as our ordinary thoughts, emotions and states swing or alternate between pleasurable or apparently “positive” states and unpleasant, painful or negative ones, to varying degrees.
  4. Our identification with any given state subjects us to its psychological opposite. The opposites are connected and “inseparable” such that “you cannot have one without the other,” both write. The opposite of any given state we experience will inevitably appear in time.
  5. As a corollary of this, the ordinary “positive” emotions we experience must inevitably “turn into” their opposite. Pseudo love, driven by self-interest, can easily turn into hate when one’s desires are frustrated for example.
  6. There are, however, superlative states, like genuine love, which are beyond the opposites. Their distinction is they cannot turn into a negative state as they have “no opposite.”
  7. These are experienced by disidentifying from the normal cycle of pleasurable and painful emotions—from both sides of the emotional spectrum—and coming to a conscious inner state in the present moment. This connects one with one’s real inner Being, which is beyond the opposites.
  8. This can only be reached within, when divested of the psychological cycle of opposites. It is entirely independent of anything external to oneself.

We’ll take a closer look at these similarities in the next section.

Note that while the authors more often use other, differing terms to describe the law of opposites, I mostly use this term since it’s the only designation both use, and because, for practical purposes, I require a common descriptor for the concept in question. The other language they use is employed more or less interchangeably to convey the same concept; this will become apparent in the examples contrasted below.

A universal law

Nicoll and Tolle make a number of shared points about how the law of opposites governs existence. I’ll examine these broader explanations first, before turning to their main focus—psychological states.

Everything in existence has an opposite

Nicoll and Tolle both point out that, due to the law of the pendulum or polarities, everything in the cosmos has an opposite it cannot exist without.

This law indicates that “to everything there is an opposite through which it exists and by which it is opposed,” Nicoll explains.  This principle, he argues, has been recognised in different ways by various ancient sources.[6] “The law of polarities,” Tolle similarly tells us, “dictates that nothing can exist without its opposite, that there can be no good without bad.”[7]

Maurice Nicoll and Eckhart Tolle quotes about how nothing can exist without its opposite

All things have an opposite they cannot exist without due to the law of the pendulum/polarities, Nicoll and Tolle explain.

This general maxim, we shall see, is applied to all facets of the law, whether in the personal and psychological sphere, or the world around us.[8]

Cycles between opposites

Everything swings or cycles between opposite conditions because of this law, the authors suggest.

In physics, the law of the pendulum—as first described by Galileo[9]— is concerned with physical motion, but Nicoll uses this term to describe the “swinging of things between opposites” which occurs in life in myriad ways. For Nicoll, a pendulum’s continual movement “from one side and then to the opposite side” demonstrates a wider cosmic principle whereby two opposite forces alternate in their periods of influence over any given phenomenon. “We can see the Law of the Pendulum at work in nature,” he tells us, “in the change of the seasons from winter to summer and back again, to and fro without ceasing, and in the movement of the tides, and in the motion of the waves, up and down, and so on.”[10]

“By means of the law of opposites” there are swings or cycles in time from one extreme to the other, at different levels and scales, under which “everything is kept balanced,” Nicoll writes. “The Law of the Pendulum indicates that there is a swing to and a swing fro in all things, but after a point in either direction there is a check and the opposite force begins to exert itself.” The greater the swing in one direction, the more pronounced the eventual counter swing will be to match it. “All phenomena, all visible things, all events, all earthly life, take place between opposite forces, or opposite poles, now swinging this way and now that, so that war follows peace and peace war, and famine follows plenty and plenty famine, and so on.” These “two forces, opposite in their nature … govern or limit all things and prevent too much excess or deficiency.”[11]

He points out that various ancient sources recognise this principle and even applied it to the universe itself:

[An ancient Mediterranean] school taught that the Universe comes together and breaks up in a vast time-cycle, or pendulum-swing. The pendulum-swing is only a cycle seen, as it were, sideways. This idea of things coming together in the cosmic creation and sundering into chaos is also found in ancient Eastern schools. For example, Brahma is said to breathe out and then breathe in the Universe.[12]

Tolle also explains the workings of the law of opposites, or polarities, in analogous ways. There is an inevitable “cyclical nature” in our dimension of the form, he tells us, in which everything moves between “creation and destruction, growth and dissolution” and “gain and loss.” This can be seen “reflected everywhere,” he writes. He also describes this principle as two universal movements: one of expansion or growth and a reverse movement of contraction and the “dissolution of form.” “Those two movements are reflected throughout the universe in many ways.”[13]

Like Nicoll, Tolle suggests a cycle between these two opposite movements applies not just to things in the universe, but likely to the universe itself—although he refers to science rather than ancient knowledge:

Some scientists also postulate that this movement from unity to multiplicity will eventually become reversed. The universe will then stop expanding and begin to contract again and finally return to the unmanifested, the inconceivable nothingness out of which it came – and perhaps repeat the cycles of birth, expansion, contraction, and death again and again.[14]

Birth and death, ascension and decline

The authors also claim this law applies to human lives—individually and collectively to the life of civilisations. Our lives, like all living creatures, occur between the opposites of “birth and death.”[15] The same can be said for nations, as both authors point out (and history shows). They have periods of ascendancy, flourish for a time, then eventually decline and either fall or are surpassed by another.[16] [17]

Expansion and contraction, success and failure

As one expression of this law, the authors describe two opposite movements, expansion and contraction, operating at various levels in life and affecting us personally.[18]

On a more personal and everyday level, this is said to cause the expansion and contraction of our hearts, they claim. It also influences the ups and downs we all go through in life: there are times of expansion or success, and periods when things fail or go wrong. Both also suggest, however, that negative cycles in our lives, or periods of contraction, can be used consciously for inner growth or preparation for the reception of something new. Instead of being upset at such times, we should understand the inevitability of this law and not expect that things should always be the same, and suffer or be disappointed when things change or are lost.[19] [20]

Here are side-by-side comparisons of them expressing these ideas:

Balance

A shared perspective both touch upon, is that the resisting or limiting force, which thwarts the growth or predominance of any given thing, is necessary for there to be an overall order or balance in life.

The limiting or opposing force in nature prevents “any one thing from getting the upper hand permanently,” Nicoll tells us. It is the interaction of two opposite forces—manifesting as the will to attain what any given thing wants, and the force of resistance opposing and limiting this—that preventstoo much excess or deficiency” and produces “a balance in all things.”[21]

Tolle also points out that “nothing can grow forever” as, if it did, “it would eventually become monstrous and destructive. Dissolution is needed for new growth to happen. One cannot exist without the other.”[22]

So, taking the big picture view, we can see that Nicoll and Tolle see this law functioning in much the same way—giving rise to opposite cycles of expansion and contraction governing and balancing everything in existence.

Summary table 1: general principles of the law of opposites

The table below provides a side-by-side comparison of the similar ways Nicoll and Tolle describe the law of opposites operating as a universal principle. Notice how their definitions closely match, and they include similar examples and points.

Maurice Nicoll Eckhart Tolle
Refers to: ‘the law of opposites,’ ‘work of the opposites’ and, most often, ‘The Law of the Pendulum’ to describe a universal law. Refers to: ‘the law of opposites,’ ‘the law of polarities,’ ‘the realm of opposites,’ and ‘the play of opposites’ to describe a universal law.
‘To everything there is an opposite through which it exists and by which it is opposed’  ‘Nothing can exist without its opposite … there can be no good without bad.’
This principle governs ‘all phenomena … all earthly life.’ ‘There is a swing to and a swing fro in all things.’ This principle is ‘reflected everywhere’ in ‘the physical dimension.’ The universe has a ‘cyclical nature.’
‘After a point in either direction there is a check and the opposite force begins to exert itself’ Everything cycles between ‘creation and destruction, growth and dissolution’
‘Two forces, opposite in their nature … govern or limit all things and prevent too much excess or deficiency.’  ‘Two [opposite] movements are reflected throughout the universe.’ ‘There is … creation and destruction, growth and dissolution.’
‘[Opposite] forces … act in nature that keep everything between certain limits and so prevent any one thing from getting the upper hand permanently.’ ‘Nothing can grow forever … Dissolution is needed for new growth to happen. One cannot exist without the other.’
It was taught that: ‘the Universe [itself] comes together and breaks up in a vast time-cycle, or pendulum-swing.’ The universe itself may: ‘repeat … cycles of birth, expansion, contraction, and death again and again.’
This principle governs the ‘swinging to and fro’ in history with its ‘continual encroachment of one nation on another.’ This principle is behind ‘the rise and fall of nations, political systems, civilizations.’
‘The period of our lives … swings between the opposite signs of birth and death.’ ‘On the level of form, there is birth and death.’
It causes ‘your own heart … to expand and contract.’ Causes ‘the incessant expansion and contraction of your heart.’
‘We have … moments of expansion and … moments of contraction… moments in which things go right and moments in which things go wrong.’ ‘There are cycles of success, when things come to you and thrive, and cycles of failure, when they wither or disintegrate and you have to let them go.’
‘You cannot expect always to be just the same. Yet how many people are disappointed [when the pendulum swings back negatively].’ ‘If you cling and resist at that point [during a down cycle], it means you are refusing to go with the flow of life, and you will suffer.’

In the next section, I will highlight their more specific and numerous correlations in the realm of human psychology.

The Opposites in human psychology

Now we come to the authors’ main concern: how the law of opposites governs our inner states.  Nicoll and Tolle both claim our regular emotions are subject to this law, and so swing or cycle between opposites. They suggest our habitual identification with inner states is the main factor keeping this process going.

Maurice Nicoll Quote About the Pendulum of Our Psychology

Opposite states are inseparable

Our regular inner states, that is, emotions and thoughts, are subject to the law of opposites the authors tell us. So, ordinarily, every thought or feeling we experience has an opposite, which will inevitably manifest “in time”—it’s just a matter of how long the cycle takes to alternate from one to the other. These swings occur because opposite states are “inseparable” or interdependent—two sides of the same coin or penny. We therefore “cannot have one without the other,” they insist. Any shift to one side of the emotional spectrum eventually brings about a counter movement toward the opposite emotional state.[23] [24]

The authors express these ideas in a similar fashion:

Pleasurable emotions turn into their opposites

Because opposite states are inseparable, what we might consider to be “positive emotions” can turn readily into their opposite, Nicoll and Tolle say—that is, into a strong negative or painful emotional state. We’ve already covered how they convey every typical state changes into its opposite in time; however, our so-called “positive” emotions—those we might consider pleasurable or pleasant—can also turn into their opposite very swiftly—“in a flash” or “at the flick of switch” they respectively point out.[25] [26]

Maurice Nicoll Quote About Positive Emotions Quickly Turning Negative

This is especially the case with the emotion mistakenly called “love”: this is often just a “possessiveness and addictive clinging that can turn into hate within a second,” Tolle writes.[27] Nicoll similarly suggests that pseudo love can “turn to dislike, suspicion, jealousy or hate in a moment.”[28]

Our so-called positive emotions can turn into their opposites so quickly because they are self-centred and dependent on external conditions that are bound to shift: “If there is plenty of flattery we feel very fine, but if there is not flattery we feel very depressed,” writes Nicoll.[29] “Praise and recognition make you feel alive and happy one day; being criticized or ignored make you dejected and unhappy the next,” Tolle also points out.[30]

And since ‘what we call a “positive” emotion is harnessed to negative emotion,’ Nicoll explains, the two inevitably go together, with the result that “love and hate are nearly indistinguishable” for many.[31] Tolle agrees that ‘many “love” relationships … actually oscillate between “love” and hate, attraction and attack.’[32]

The authors express these notions quite similarly at times. Here are six direct comparisons:

However, the authors both attest that more superlative states, such as real love, do exist beyond the cycle of opposites. We’ll come to that shortly.

Identification

A key factor keeping us bound to the cycles of opposites internally, which I’ve mentioned in passing a few times already, is identification, Nicoll and Tolle maintain.

I’ve discussed their views on this at great length elsewhere. Without repeating too much, identification, in the sense they use the term, means essentially placing—or really misplacing—one’s sense or feeling of “I” or “self” in anything not who we really are—especially transient thoughts, emotions and moods which arise compulsively or habitually. By identifying with an inner state, we become lost or absorbed in it, and it takes over our sense of who we are. At that point, it becomes something much more than a passing phenomenon in our psyche: it “becomes” us. Unless we can separate from the illusion that we are a given state, we fall unconsciously under its influence in that moment, and typically remain that way until it passes or we break our identification with it.

Maurice Nicoll and Eckhart Tolle quotes about identifying with thoughts and emotions

Transient thoughts or emotions become you when you identify with them, Nicoll and Tolle convey, and then have power over you.

Both heavily emphasise the need to consciously observe our habitual unconscious inner states and reactions in the present moment and non-identify or dis-identify from them—with a particular emphasis on negative states. This is one of the central tenets of their work.

Because our ordinary states occur under the law of opposites, identification is integral to keeping us psychologically bound to the cycle of opposite states within us, they suggest. Identifying with, and falling under the power of, one emotional state will unconsciously place us under the influence of its opposite as well. As we’ve seen, the opposites go together and there are cycles between them, so we reinforce a whole cycle between opposites if we identify with any given state. We are thus drawn further into “unconsciousness” by identifying with any given mental-emotional state on one polarity, or one side of the psychological pendulum, the authors maintain.[33] [34]

Maurice Nicoll Quote About the Power of the Opposites

So to be free of any state in a lasting way, we must deal with its opposite too: it cannot be taken in isolation. We must stop identifying with both sides of the cycle, they suggest.  If we stay in the “mind-identified condition” we’ll just remain trapped in “the continuously alternating pain/pleasure cycle,” writes Tolle.[35] A “swing in one direction is followed sooner or later by a swing in the opposite,” Nicoll explains, but if we could “not identify” then “the mechanical cycle might be gradually lessened.”[36]

Summary table 2: opposite psychological states

This table provides a side-by-side comparison of the similar ways Nicoll and Tolle describe the law of opposites operating psychologically, governing inner states. Their phrasing often closely corresponds: the same points and terms appear in similarly-structured sentences. Sometimes switchable expressions/idioms are used. For example: “faces of the same coin” versus “two sides of a penny,” “at the flick of a switch” versus “in a flash,” and “within a second” versus “in a moment” etc.

Maurice Nicoll Eckhart Tolle
You cannot have one emotion without its opposite…. The sphere of mechanical emotions … is under the law of the pendulum.’ Emotions … being part of the dualistic mind, are subject to the law of opposites…. You cannot have good [emotions] without bad.’
‘Now every thought or feeling that comes into your consciousness has an opposite.’ ‘Emotions exist within the realm of opposites.’
‘The two opposites [of the emotional pendulum] are connected like the two sides of a penny…. It is important to see this.’ ‘Seen from a higher perspective, both the negative and the positive [emotional] polarities are faces of the same coin.’
‘[Opposite states] form one thing … and they are inseparable … that is, you cannot have one without the other.’ ‘The [emotional] polarities are mutually interdependent.  You cannot have one without the other.’
‘Everything comes to an end and turns into its opposite in time…. The end of sorrow is joy, the end of weeping is laughter.’ ‘And every pleasure or emotional high contains within itself the seed of pain: its inseparable opposite, which will manifest in time.’
‘What we might call our positive emotionsturn very easily into their opposites—namely, into negative emotions.’ Positive emotions generated by the ego already contain within themselves their opposite into which they can quickly turn.’
‘What we [wrongly] call love can turn to dislike, suspicion, jealousy or hate in a moment.’* ‘What the ego calls love is possessiveness and addictive clinging that can turn into hate within a second.’
‘We only know emotions that turn readily into their opposites, and do so often in a flash. We call it love but it is not love.’* ‘And what is often referred to as love … is [really] an addictive clinging … that can turn into its opposite at the flick of a switch.’
‘The pleasant emotions that we ordinarily experience [can] turn into the most unpleasant emotions in a flash.’ ‘[So-called] love can … turn into savage attack, feelings of hostility, or complete withdrawal of affection at the flick of a switch.’
‘If there is plenty of flattery we feel very fine, but if there is not flattery we feel very depressed.’ ‘Praise and recognition make you feel alive and happy one day; being criticized or ignored make you dejected and unhappy the next.’
‘What we call a “positive” emotion is harnessed to negative emotion so that in mechanical life love and hate are nearly indistinguishable.’ ‘Many “love” relationships, after the initial euphoria has passed, actually oscillate between “love” and hate, attraction and attack.’
‘A swing in one [emotional] direction is followed … by a swing in the opposite direction…. One is over-excited and then too depressed…. If you could … not identify … the mechanical cycle might be gradually lessened.’ ‘In the unenlightened, mind-identified condition, what is sometimes wrongly called joy is the usually short-lived pleasure side of the continuously alternating pain/pleasure [emotional] cycle.’
‘When you identify with the thought or the feeling you … are on the pendulum, and insensibly … will find yourself having the opposite thought or opposite feeling…. This is just where our unconsciousness lies.’ ‘The polar opposites will become strengthened and more deeply entrenched…. [if] you … become identified with one of the polarities, [as] you will [then] … be drawn [further] into unconsciousness yourself.’

*Note: Nicoll is paraphrasing Ouspensky here.

In the next section, I examine how they describe the existence of states beyond the usual psychological opposites.

Beyond the opposites: higher or deeper emotions and states

Despite our ordinary emotions being governed by the law of opposites, there are states beyond opposites—although we usually only experience them “occasionally” “in flashes,” according to Nicoll,[37] or as “brief glimpses” according to Tolle.[38]

In Fourth Way terminology, these states are called “positive emotions” and come from what’s called the higher emotional centre—one of two higher centres in us attuned to higher vibrations.[39] The lower psyche must be cleansed and connected with higher centres through conscious inner work, in order to receive their influences.[40]

You will taste [a real] positive emotion for a brief moment—something blessed—that is, filled with such bliss that nothing of human love-hate emotions can be compared with it. What we regard as positive emotions, feeling fine, feeling fit, and on top of the world, self-admiration, etc., can turn in a moment into negative emotion. Such emotions, such pleasant emotions, are not positive emotions; these never change into their opposites but visit us and then withdraw.[41]

I personally find the term positive emotions confusing here, as “positive” invokes its binary opposite in language, which is “negative”—which may lead one to think that these positive emotions are the counterpoint to negative states on the psychological pendulum. But that is not what is meant at all. While ordinary states typically swing between opposites, negative emotions are said to be one of the chief factors preventing us from even feeling states from Higher Emotional Centre at all (pride being another).[42] The, “real positive emotions,” Nicoll refers to, are not be confused with the ordinary pleasurable emotions that we wrongly “regard as positive emotions,” as they will turn into their opposites—that is, negative emotions. Instead, Nicoll is referring to something beyond this pendulum cycle entirely. The distinguishing feature of a real positive emotion, he explains, is that it “has no opposite.” It “may come in a flash and disappear, but… cannot turn into any opposite thing, into a negative state.” It is something “utterly different from the ordinary heavy emotions” we experience, whether pleasant or unpleasant.[43]

Tolle likewise affirms that we need “to differentiate between positive emotions that are ego-generated and deeper emotions.” The deeper states of being “can be obscured, but … have no opposite.” As such they do not “turn into hate” or any form of emotional pain like ordinary emotions often do.[44]

This is again the key difference between the pseudo love, discussed earlier, which turns easily into its opposite, and real love, which both describe as bringing a sense of unity—of being “as one” or having  “oneness.” “Our ordinary so-called love turns very easily into hate,” writes Nicoll, but genuine love, as a real positive emotion, “has no opposite and attracts no contrary to it, having everything in itself as one.”[45] Tolle also writes of “the love that comes with the realization of your oneness with all that is” and “has no opposite.” Such “real love,” cannot “suddenly turn into hate.”[46]

Here are some side-by-side examples of them expressing these ideas:

Real “I” or Being

While flashes or glimpses of higher or deeper states without opposite can occur spontaneously, we invite a more sustained experience of these, Nicoll and Tolle suggest, if we consciously come out of the mental-emotional cycle of opposites within us and connect with our real self or being.

Our real I, self or being contains no opposites, they tell us, and cannot be found in the usual cycle of opposite states; it exists beyond them. In contrast, our false self—the false personality or ego—exists within the swings of psychological opposites. To connect with our real self, we must consciously observe our psychology in the present moment and cease identifying with what we are not—including all the habitual inner states under the law of opposites. By doing this we make room for what’s real to come forth.   While I’ve compared the authors on these matters before, I do so now with reference to gaining inner freedom from the cycle of opposite mental-emotional states.

“Our moods are all hung on to pendulums,” Nicoll writes. “Unfortunately we identify with them. We forget that “Real I” is [found] in the centre of the pendulum-swing.” “We must find some way of reconciling these opposites and not being on this Pendulum swing at every moment” because “no harmony can be produced” this way, he tells us. Even “your own views of yourselves are on these opposites and are specially governed by False Personality.” Yet if we cease to “feel” ourselves “through the opposites,” then our “feeling of ‘I’ moves to the centre…. the place or state where Real ‘I’ is,” he explains. “We cannot reach it from one or the other opposite.” As this occurs, “harmony, balance, begins to replace the tensions of the opposites that existed before.” A person becomes “closer and closer to his real self, his Real I, which is in the centre of his being and contains no opposites.”[47]

“Ego-generated emotions are derived from the mind’s identification with external factors” and “exist within the realm of opposites” Tolle also affirms. “States of Being,” however, “have no opposite.” If you disidentify with the usual unconscious emotional polarities, “a deeper dimension underneath the play of opposites reveals itself to you” that’s “beyond good or bad” when in that “state of inner connectedness with being.”  This is “the good that has no opposite, the joy of Being.”[48]

Inner peace from being

Nicoll and Tolle both point out that the happiness and peace we can find when connected with our real inner being is not dependent on anything external.

Maurice Nicoll and Eckhart Tolle quotes about true happiness and peace

Happiness from external attainment isn’t deep, but peace from one’s inner being is independent of that, and remains whatever happens—if we stay awake or present within, Nicoll and Tolle suggest.

“The quality of happiness that comes from being first, or having most, or looking best, and so on, is not a genuine or deep happiness since it depends uneasily on what people think and needs continual re-stimulation,” Nicoll writes.  In contrast, the peace and happiness that “belongs to one’s inner being” is “independent of external things” and “cannot be shaken by external events if you keep awake.”[49]  

“The happiness that is derived from some secondary source is never very deep,” Tolle also makes clear, whereas “the joy of Being … depends on nothing outside itself” and “frees you from dependency on form.” The “deep inner core of peace,” that’s felt “in the state of inner connectedness with Being,” still remains “even if everything were to collapse and crumble all around you”—provided, of course, that you “stay present” and maintain “connectedness with Being.”[50]

Summary table 3: beyond opposite states

This table provides a side-by-side comparison of the similar ways Nicoll and Tolle describe the possibility of experiencing superlative states that have “no opposite,” and are derived from one’s real being. Notice how shared points and examples often appear; sometimes with very similar phrasing.

Maurice Nicoll Eckhart Tolle
‘We may have … flashes of positive emotion … utterly different from the ordinary heavy emotions.’ ‘We need to differentiate between positive emotions that are ego-generated and deeper emotions.’
‘Real positive emotions … may come in a flash and then disappear, but they cannot turn into any opposite.’ ‘[These deeper] states of Being can be obscured, but they have no opposite.’
‘A [real] positive emotion … never turns into an opposite. Our ordinary so-called love turns very easily into hate. A [real] positive emotion has no opposite.’ ‘Love, joy, and peace are deep states of Being …. As such, they have no opposite…. Real love doesn’tsuddenly turn into hate, nor does real joy turn into pain….’
‘Occasionally we do have real [positive] emotions for a very short time.’ ‘You may get glimpses of true joy, true love, or of a deep inner peace.’
‘But love … as a [real] positive emotion has no opposite and attracts no contrary to it, having everything in itself as one.’ ‘The love that you feel deep within, the love that comes with the realization of your oneness with all that is. This is the love that has no opposite.’
‘Our moods are all hung on to pendulums…. Unfortunately we identify with them. We forget that “Real I” is in the centre of the pendulum-swing, and … swing between excitement and dejection … enthusiasm and depression.’ ‘Ego-generated emotions are derived from the mind’s identification with external factors which are … unstable and liable to change at any moment…. Emotions exist within the realm of opposites. States of Being … have no opposite.’
‘If you … do not feel yourself through the opposites …the feeling of ‘I’ moves to the centre…. the place or state where Real ‘I’ is. Real ‘I’ or Master comes from “above”…. We cannot reach it from one or the other opposite.’ ‘A deeper dimension underneath the play of opposites reveals itself to you as an abiding presence, an unchanging deep stillness, an uncaused joy beyond good and bad. This is the joy of Being, the peace of God.’
‘Harmony, balance, begins to replace the tensions of the opposites that existed before…. This brings [a man] closer and closer to his real self, his Real I, which is in the centre of his being and contains no opposites.’ ‘True salvation is fulfillment, peace, life in all its fullness. It is to be who you are, to feel within you the good that has no opposite, the joy of Being that depends on nothing outside itself.’
‘The quality of happiness that comes from being first, or having most … is not … genuine or deep.’ ‘The happiness that is derived from some secondary source is never very deep.’
‘There is another quality of happiness … independent of external things. It belongs to one’s inner being…. The False Personality … cannot know it…. [It] replace[s] restlessness and its kindred anxiety and fear by peace. This peace cannot be shaken by external events.’ ‘Being takes you beyond the polar opposites of the mind and frees you from dependency on form. Even if everything were to collapse and crumble all around you, you would still feel a deep inner core of peace. You may not be happy, but you will be at peace.’
You must ‘keep awake’ to maintain this state You must ‘stay present’ to maintain this state

The Kybalion: A different approach to the opposites

As mentioned, the general idea behind the law of opposites—of an inherent duality in the cosmos and in us—has an ancient heritage. Yet the similar ways Nicoll and Tolle describe how this principle operates in our psychological states goes beyond, I believe, just a shared restatement of this broad view in its most ancient, symbolic or philosophically abstract sense. As we have seen, they describe in quite specific, modern terms—sometimes using language drawn from science and psychology— how this law governs our inner states. They also employ the same or equivalent expressions or examples on a number of occasions.

“The Kybalion contends there are constant movements or cycles between opposite polarities in the cosmos and in ourselves.”

However, their descriptions also bear a notable similarity to an earlier early 20th century text: The Kybalion: A Study of the Hermetic Philosophy of Ancient Egypt and Greece.[51]  The Kybalion was a highly influential esoteric book of the early 20th century which had a significant impact on modern occultism and New Age thinking. Since both Nicoll and Tolle have a clear similarity to what this text outlines on the theme of the law of opposites, it is worth comparing their views, and assessing where they agree and disagree.

As we’ll see, Nicoll and Tolle’s general outline of how the law of opposites functions is very much in line with this book’s definitions and descriptions, yet the psychological method they suggest we apply to ourselves is actually very different from what The Kybalion advocates. While The Kybalion agrees that our inner states swing ceaselessly between opposites, it advocates polarising oneself on the positive pole of this inner cycle to avoid the negative, with a method akin to positive thinking. In contrast, Nicoll and Tolle advocate disidentifying from both opposites and coming out of these psychological cycles entirely.

The law of three: reconciling opposites by a third force

There is a significant difference between Nicoll and Tolle on this idea of going beyond mental-emotional opposites.

“The  Law of Three … holds that there are three universal forces present in every manifestation in creation.”

Nicoll’s discussion of the law of opposites is situated within the broader Fourth Way teaching of what is called “The Law of Three,” an idea connected with religious conceptions of the trinity. This law holds that there are three universal forces present in every manifestation in creation.[71] As far as I can tell, this teaching is not found in Tolle’s books (or in The Kybalion for that matter). Yet this principle profoundly shapes how Nicoll approaches this subject; so, on this point, there is a great divergence between him and Tolle.

Essentially, Nicoll explains that the swings between two opposites in our inner states can only be overcome by the involvement of a third additional force, which reconciles the duality of two opposite forces. By reconciling opposites, this neutral force of the trinity provides a pathway beyond “the usual action-reaction work of the opposites” and toward inner unity.[72] Tolle, on the other hand, seems to suggest we can go directly from psychological duality to unity, without any mention of a trinity of forces and a third reconciling force enabling this.

I will outline this divergence and its implications below.

Closing comments

Tolle corresponds a great deal with Nicoll in describing how the law of opposites operates in the outer world and, most importantly, within us psychologically.

As was shown in the first part of this article, both maintain that our psychological states swing or cycle between inseparable opposites which are two sides of the same coin. A resolution to this cycle of opposites can only be found in a higher state of consciousness, in which we connect with our real self, which is beyond any opposites. The superlative states we find here cannot turn into an opposite; genuine love cannot become hate.

“Where Nicoll and Tolle diverge most is on the importance of a third force, the reconciling aspect of the trinity.”

Essentially, Nicoll and Tolle agree that we must get beyond mental-emotional opposites entirely, and stop identifying with inner states on either pole, whether pleasant or painful. No solution can be found in either opposite as they simply reinforce each other. On this, they differ very much from the “positive thinking” approach, extolled in the Kybalion and many later sources, in which one is encouraged to polarise themselves on the positive pole of the emotional spectrum to avoid the negative.

Where Nicoll and Tolle diverge most is on the importance of a third force, the reconciling aspect of the trinity—described as “the law of three” in the Fourth Way. Nicoll links this mediating principle to an ancient stream of teaching visible in various forms of Western Esotericism, most obviously the Pythagoreans. It is worth noting, however, that this notion of the trinity can be found, albeit sometimes fragmentarily, in other sources, including older ones; Pythagoras is purported to have travelled widely and received much of his knowledge from civilisations older than the Greco-Roman world, notably Persia and Egypt.

“A key tenet of this teaching … is that the third reconciling force of the trinity brings harmony to the opposites, allowing for ordered manifestations in the world, and leading us toward unity within.”

A key tenet of this teaching espoused by Nicoll is that the third reconciling force of the trinity brings harmony to the opposites, allowing for ordered manifestations in the world, and leading us toward unity within. Yet this principle, with an ancient lineage, is not found in Tolle’s books. It is not that Tolle denies or refutes it—rather, it is simply absent.  So, despite his claim that his work represents, “a restatement for our time of that one timeless spiritual teaching, the essence of all religions,”[108] this is clearly not the case here with the principle of trinity—of a tripartite nature to existence—which a number of sources, ancient and modern, deem fundamental.[109]

At the risk of perhaps oversimplifying, it seems we have two approaches here: the first, as exposited by Nicoll, is more about an inner transformation via the struggle of opposites, and learning to reconcile them, whereas the second—found, by no means exclusively, in Tolle’s work—is via a rejection of opposites as somehow unreal. In Nicoll’s work, the ancient esoteric principle of the reunification of opposites by the intervention of some third mediating factor, forming a trinity or triad, is posited as a necessary precursor to return to a state of unity—and this inner work, struggle and process creates the means for the transformation possible on this “return journey.” In other words, we can’t permanently come to inner unity as we are now: some process of inner work and development is needed at our level of creation. And that involves working with three forces, including resistance—hence the need to “struggle.” Whereas Tolle’s approach is more about transcending opposites entirely as you are now—reflecting a nondualistic, immediatist worldview positing an enlightenment you don’t have to work for.[110] This view is more consistent with teachings often categorised under the umbrella term “Neo Advaita.”

I think there are profound implications to this divergence, but, as already mentioned, it is far too much to get into that here. So, for now, I’ll just say that the spiritual implications of this divergence warrant greater reflection and attention. However, the key point I want to end on is that, whatever their differences, the similarities between Nicoll and Tolle on this theme—as with others I’ve discussed before—are significant. Given Eckhart Tolle’s fame and popularity, not to mention wealth, this is no small matter. The scope of Nicoll’s influence on contemporary spiritality via Tolle is a major story yet to be widely told and appreciated.

Notes and References

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